I avoid spending more time than necessary with people I don't have much in common with. I woudl rather spend the time socialising with a great book or going to the museum.
That is one of the reasons I am nto keen on meeting those I have known only through the internet.
With blogging and blogroll, most people are connected by a certain thread or blogring. And as they do online, they bitch about each other offline. I hate gossips.
I have been betrayed again recently. I am nto going to waste more time on the cunt. I just named a pig after her.